Ahad, 27 Julai 2014

Learn to forgive


1.  A forgiveness that comes from the heart allows us to enjoy a long lasting happiness. We must remember that we are not going to be happy if we choose the path of sorrow, but we would be happy if we choose the path to happiness. If we Still cling to anger and hatred even at the unconscious level, the journey that we go to will be filled indirectly with these two elements. What we think and emotions we hold is a weapon which will determine and shape the future we want. 


2. Forgiveness allows us to interpret the presence of the people around us as educators not an obstacle. Family members, spouses, friends, and others, present in our lives to teach us to know ourselves better. Thank them for being part of our journey. The same philosophy is also used for something negative, such as a fail relationship. When we truly understand the lesson behind why a negative relationship came into our lives. The experience we have gone through will prevent us to repeat the same mistakes again.


3. Forgiveness makes us aware that everyone is always trying to do their best. Respect others as we want others to respect us. Everyone wants the best, and we try to give the best but there are some things that are beyond our control, what we do is based on the level of awareness and understanding of the best we have on that particular time. 

4. Forgiveness creating a concept "what we do to others, whether good or bad, will come to haunt us back in near future." We are all human and sometimes we do make something terrible in our life and deep down in our heart, we all want forgiveness for the mistakes we have done. At the moment we release others from the punishment due to their actions, we create a space for ourselves to be forgiven as well.

5. Forgiveness taught us not to expect too much. We cannot always expect something from others. When we do that then we will fail in making the decision. Use wisely all the knowledge and resource that we have to move on. Do not rely too often on other people all the time to improve ourselves. 

6. Forgiveness teaches us to not take advantage. We sometimes like to take advantage of others for our own benefit in terms of financial, emotional and so on. We must remember that what we do to others will come back to haunt us at other times as always.

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong" -Mahatma Gandhi

"Mistake are forgivable, if one has the courage to admit the" -Bruce Lee-

"All major religious traditions carry basically the same message, that is love, compassion and forgiveness the important thing is they should be part of our daily lives"-Dalai Lama-

"Forgiveness is the virtue of the brave" -Indira Gandhi-

"Holding on to anger, resentment and hurt only gives you tense muscles, a headache and a sore jaw from clenching your teeth. Forgiveness gives you back the laughter and the lightness in your life"  -Joan Lunden-





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